How happy are you? Really? Life always gives us a mixture of ups and downs but it is very important to deal smartly with situations. At the end of the day, all that matters is how you find your peace, True happiness and how satisfied you are with yourself.
Today one of my friends shared this beautiful read ( not sure where this source is from) but I really liked it and thought of sharing this insightful piece here in my blog post.
During a class at Fresno Pacific University, a speaker asked one of the spouses in the audience:
“Does your husband make you happy?”
At this moment, the husband stood up straighter, showing complete confidence. He knew his wife would say yes, because she had never complained about anything during their marriage.
However, his wife answered the question with a resounding “No.” “No, my husband does not make me happy.”
The husband was baffled, but his wife continued:
“My husband never made me happy, and he does not make me happy. I am happy.”
“Whether I am happy or not is dependent not on him, but on me. I am the only person on whom my happiness depends.
I choose to be happy in every situation and every moment of my life, for if my happiness depended on another person, thing or circumstance, I would be in serious trouble.
Everything that exists in this life constantly changes the human being, the riches, my body, the climate, my boss, the pleasures, the friends, and my physical and mental health. I could quote an endless list.
I need to decide to be happy regardless of anything else that happens. Whether I own a lot or a little, I am happy! Whether I’m going out or staying home alone, I’m happy! Whether I am rich or poor, I am happy!
I am married, but I was already happy when I was single.
I’m happy for myself.
I love my life, not because my……